Five Principles of Creative Negotiation

Dealing with conflict and differences is rarely an easy task. Barriers to creative negotiation can be numerous and are often the saboteurs of a potential sale. Remember: your goal is to reach win-win-win-win settlements with qualified customers. To that end, I offer these five principles of creative sales negotiation:

Principle #1: Attitude First

Are you a good negotiator? Your answer reflects your level of confidence in your negotiation skills. Creating a positive mindset involves basic attitudinal characteristics, which become the building blocks for successful negotiation. Attitudes and skills must work in harmony. Attitudinal characteristics of negotiation include self-awareness, self-belief, and an openness to other viewpoints. Salespeople frequently overlook the importance of preparing themselves mentally. Attitude—how we deal with others when negotiating—drives the relationship. Develop a win-win-win-win attitude toward negotiation, and don't be satisfied until all parties are pleased with the solution.

Principle #2: Planning and Preparation

For many of us, planning is boring and tedious, easily put off in favor of leaping into action quickly. However, devoting insufficient time to planning frequently results in failure to negotiate a mutually beneficial agreement, and raises feelings of hostility and frustration.

The cornerstone to effective, creative negotiation is a carefully designed blueprint outlining specifically desired results for both you and your customer. The first step is to clearly articulate your position—know what your objectives are. Know the issues that are not negotiable and the issues that are negotiable. I refer to them as your "must-have" and "nice-to-have" issues. Must-have issues are predetermined prior to negotiation and are essential to a satisfactory agreement. They are simply not negotiable. Your nice-to-have issues are negotiable. Although they would be nice to have, they are not essential to the agreement. They are issues you are prepared to concede or use as trade-offs in the interest of concluding the agreement or maintaining the relationship.

Your window of flexibility is guided by your predetermined min-max points—min being your lowest acceptable point and max being your best, most ideal position. So, in the interests of creative negotiation, each of your must-have issues should be accompanied by a window of flexibility—your min-max points. Let's look at the example below.

As a sales entrepreneur, your must-have issue is making a profit. To do this, you are guided by the flexibility of your predetermined min-max points. As in Figure 10.1, the ideal situation is a max-point of $150 whereas your min-point is $100. Any price lower than your min-point is unacceptable—you may have to entertain other avenues, such as concessions or tradeoffs, to secure the deal. The wider the spread between your min-max points, the more flexibility you have to negotiate. Otherwise, you may become too rigid and inflexible, deadlocking the negotiation. In terms of your nice-to-have issues, I suggest there are no min-max points. These issues are subject to negotiation and may be used as concessions to advance the deal. The key to creative negotiation is knowing your parameters prior to negotiation. Whenever possible, plan your strategy beforehand. It's tough to negotiate creatively if you don't know the parameters of your destination. In creative negotiation, those who ask for more typically get more ... and those with low targets typically underachieve.

Also, consider whether negotiation is appropriate at all. It may be a C account or a C opportunity. In some sales situations negotiation can take place spontaneously, so be aware of the status of the opportunity: A, B, or C. You may have to respond on the fly so be sure to have the complete account file with you at the call for quick reference to previous discussions.

The second step in negotiation planning is to define the issues worthy of negotiation. Refer to all your notes and assemble all the issues, yours and your customer's, into a comprehensive list. Some issues may have been resolved prior to the negotiation, which is fine, but be sure to identify any outstanding issues. It can be frustrating and costly—in terms of time and success—if the customer calls you just prior to inking the deal with an unresolved issue. After the issues are assembled, the next step is to prioritize them. By sharing the list with your customer, you continue to build trust and confidence as you work through it together. Extract relevant information from your notes to enhance your position. A comment in your notes from six months ago may be a valuable piece of information. Salespeople often compensate for inadequate planning by conceding more than necessary. This shortcut can be very costly.

Sales entrepreneurs cannot afford to be quick and clever during the give and take of negotiation. Planning increases your negotiation success substantially and helps you achieve solutions that you never thought possible. Invest the time and energy (during janitorial hours) to prepare a strategy in line with your customer's behavioral style. Your strategy will help you relax, face fewer unknowns, and reduce stress.

Principle #3: Know the Lingo

The negotiation arena has a language of its own. I have seen many negotiation sessions fail simply due to not understanding the language of negotiation. My objective here is not to provide you with an in-depth study of all the nuances of negotiation but to create a mindset, an awareness, and an overview of the logistics of creative sales negotiation. I suggest you augment your negotiation skills and confidence by considering other publications on the subject. Consider this chapter as your springboard to further study.